8 Signs You Have The Type Of Home People Silently Admire

Have you ever wondered whether people genuinely, really like your home? A lot of what we like or don't like about a home is intangible. Many people find themselves subconsciously drawn to certain types of home decor styles without really being able to pinpoint why, and a lot of it comes down to what home designs resonate most with their personality. Someone who considers themself classic and traditional may admire a living room full of antiques and more conservative artwork, and feel less at home in a house with a sleek, modern aesthetic, for example. But at the end of the day, a feeling of safety, warmth, and contentment, and being able to feel relaxed and at peace in a space is probably what draws people to some homes more than others — and it's something that makes guests admire your home even if they might have very different design tastes.

To figure out if people admire your home, you may need to do a little psychological sleuthing. Take note of body language and whether people appear visibly relaxed in your home, for example, or notice whether people want to keep coming over to visit, or take an active interest in your design choices. While no single one of these signs is a surefire indicator that people admire your home, if you notice that several of the following traits apply to you and your house, then there's good reason to believe that you do have the type of home people tend to admire.

If friends and family give little hints that they'd like to repeat a visit, it's probably a sign that they admire your home — even if they don't explicitly say so. Of course, they may also just enjoy seeing you, or your home may be the most convenient spot to socialize. But just as enthusiastic buyers want to view a house more than once, if someone wants to keep coming over, it probably means that you have home decor that instantly makes guests feel at home in your house and enjoy spending time there.

Everyone's taste is different, but there are a few home design styles that a majority of people call their favorite — such as Scandinavian, with its clean lines and focus on natural materials, and contemporary, with its minimalist look that's easy to customize. If your home is styled in a look that has mass appeal, then chances are it's also a home that generates a lot of admiration.

In general, body language doesn't lie. In fact, 55% of what we communicate is through body language alone, while only 7% is the actual words, meaning actions really do speak louder than words. So if you want to know whether someone admires your home, look at their facial expressions, posture, and gestures. Do they have arms crossed and look like they're scanning for the exit? Or do they appear relaxed and comfortable? If it's the latter, then they probably like the environment, even if they haven't said so out loud.

When a person is genuinely interested in a topic, they'll often ask a lot of questions about it. So if a friend or neighbor is peppering you with queries like "where did you buy these curtains" or "how did you find this paint color" or "where did you get the idea for this kitchen layout," it's likely because they admire your home and want to learn more about it, maybe so that they can replicate the look in their own home — which brings us to our next sign of admiration.

Imitation really is the sincerest form of flattery. If your mother-in-law comes over for a visit, and the next time you're at her house, you notice she has suddenly added an accent wall just like yours, or refurbished her entryway right after you did, then chances are she admires your home — even if she isn't inclined to tell you so up front. If this is a trend you've observed with more than one guest visiting your home, then odds are even higher that you have a home people tend to admire.

The science is clear: A home that's clean and clutter-free makes us feel happier, less stressed, and is generally better for mental and physical health. Most people enjoy a clean home (and take pleasure in watching other people cleaning their homes) even if they struggle to keep things tidy themselves. In that case, they could use 15 tips for cleaning the house. So if your home is clean, people probably feel good visiting. Of course, sometimes a home that's too polished can feel sterile and uninviting, but if you've found that perfect balance of clean yet cozy and welcoming, then odds are people admire it.

A lot of home design is subjective, but there are certain aspects of home design that really do cater to pretty much everyone — a phenomenon known as universal design. Curbless showers, for example, are inconspicuous enough, yet make life a lot easier for everyone at all stages of the aging spectrum, from small children to the elderly, as well as those with wheelchairs or other accessibility needs. So if you have a lot of universal design elements in your home, it's more likely that your home quietly generates mass appeal and admiration.

You don't need to have a huge, sprawling mansion for your home to be admired. In general, people appreciate a home that has been thoughtfully designed to make the best use of the space that's available, with rooms that flow naturally and without excess furniture or too many knick-knacks clogging the room. Guests likely admire your home (and your resourcefulness!) if you've taken advantage of storage and arranged furniture to create functional spaces that also feel homey.